I think those people who criticize others under anonymous identities are cowards. I mean, we can accept the fact the not all people will praise our work. But to give them the pleasure and the convenience to bash our work while losing their own integrity and accountability to whatever words come out of their mouth is simply absurd. We can criticize each other with RESPECT. That's the most important thing.
Has anyone of you encountered such insincere people? What do you think of them? What did you do to counter them?
Anyway, Have a great day, ladies.
reality check girl. not everybody will like you, be grateful somebody has the guts to tell you what's wrong with what your doing (anonymous or not). of course that's for you to decide to follow it or not. you can choose to ignore them. you can choose to be affected by it. That's life. You can never avoid it.
ReplyDeletethe only thing you can do is to listen to them, if there is some truth in it then maybe you should check it out; if not, don't. besides this is a beauty blog (a self-gratification blog). accept the fact that if your doing something lame and crappy you'll get some critics. the lesson? deliver quality and decent output so that they can't say anything at all. don't settle for mediocrity.
just don't let them get to you,hun.
ReplyDeleteif you start getting those 'hate' messages it just means that you are making an impact & is becoming popular.
i once heard this from my friend
"love me or hate me, both are in my favor... if u hate me i'm always on ur mind and if u love me, i'm always in ur heart!"
hehe
anonymous commenter once said that i write my posts with too many ellipses..in my next post, i made sure that i put in a lot more ellipses!
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then another said that my fingers are too fat to take pics of & do nail arts. my next weekend nail post, i made sure that i zoomed my fingers in for a closer look!
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instead of letting them affect me, i just show them that i dont care because i have fun in my blog & a lot of people love me more than how she hates me.
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@Thiamere: Thanks, Thiamere. I really appreciate everything you told me. And I think I have another message from the same person. Haha! Funny thing is, Ms. Anonymous here... I believe, will remain anonymous for the rest of her life. Which sucks right? I'm not saying I don't accept criticisms... but at least CRITICIZE WITH DIGNITY. She's afraid to put her name in here because shes's afraid to be criticized back WHICH IS LAME. I don't really care if she calls me fake. But the THING IS, She's just saying these things because she's enjoying the fact that she's saying all these things without really having the responsibility to own it when people will criticize her back. Geez. We are enjoying what were doing and this girl doesn't even know how to have fun. Thanks, Thiamere. I'll remember everything you've said.I hope this girl will learn how to have fun too. So.. you know.. it's going to be a win win situation. :)
ReplyDelete@Anonymous: Oh... Weren't you the one who gave a comment earlier? I hope you don't get it wrong.. I'm not really after your message. In fact I really appreciate your comment. I'm after the fact that you don't even want to place your name in here... We'd love to know you because you seem to have a lot of great things in mind. you know... Telling us that BEAUTY BLOGGING IS SELF GRATIFICATION. Well I guess... as a reader... you're after self gratification too. What do you think? I'm actually listening to you. that's why if I need to correct any misconceptions that you have, I also have a responsibility to respond. We have democracy here. You can talk, I can talk. Don't you think it's only rational?
ReplyDeleteSo now You're telling me I'm doing something lame and crappy. AND YOUR BASIS? Look, girl. this is funny. You're reading my blog. Do you even know what a blog is? First, WE (Me and my readers) don't even know you. Second, you're telling me that I should be thankful that someone have the stupid guts to tell me that my work is crappy so I gotta listen to you. Third, You can't even pin point whatever it is that you don't like. Fourth, so now you know so much you're giving me an insignificant lesson. Decent output... WOW... how about DECENT CRITIC. Finally, you're telling me not to settle for mediocrity. This is a blog, dear, and not some writing contest wherein you'll be the judge. And if you're getting annoyed reading my blog, i suggest you blog hop.. you know try reading other blogs. Or perhaps, MAKE YOUR OWN because we're all so interested on the things you're talking about. Perhaps you can teach us how to make a decent output and all the jazz. Com'on.. don't waste your time simply reading blogs! Make your own blog and show the world what a good blog is. ^__^
You class-lessly, incoherently, irrationally, and immaturely replied to my comment, and to that I say cheers! Haha! It totally made my day. Have a great day =D
ReplyDelete@_@ Wow... anonymous does have some issues. That's really not that nice of you to just hit on morbigfrank just like that :S but yeah, there is nothing wrong with helping each other improve but that doesn't mean to just attack like that.... ignore these kind of ppl! just do wat you think is best ^^
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ReplyDeleteHey girl :) This Anonymous person can not even tell which photo/blog entry she doesn't like. A little challenge: Sige nga, ituro mo nga yung ayaw sinasabi mong mukhang fake! :)))
@Anonymous: Haha Class-lessly? Is there such a word? Nah.. It doesn't really matter right? We can't really talk about nonsense, can we? You're one funny little girl. ^__^ Let us cheer for Anonymous. Finally, she's happy!!! Have a great day too! ^__^
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